I’m Not Chinese, Nor a Plate Spinner

GRAVITY Experiment Day #32

Today’s weight:  145.5 (woohoo!)

Pounds lost / pounds to go:  5.0 / 10.0

Exercise:  4 hours participating in field day activities with my 3 munchkins – while I wasn’t overly active, the sun completely zapped me today and I am going to pay for it tomorrow.  I did some deep squats picking up “bowls” with my elbows, tossed stuffed frogs into a hula hoop, and beat all the other parents from my oldest daughter’s class in a ping-pong bouncing contest standing on one foot.  I’m callin’ it a day with that!

Do you ever feel like one of those Chinese plate spinners?  I do.  In fact, one of my recent status updates on Facebook was, “I’m not Chinese, nor a plate spinner.”  The point was that it is really tough to give each “plate” the attention it needs to keep it from slowing down, falling, and breaking.

Life feels like that to me at times.  On one plate is my marriage, another the kids, another work, another my spiritual growth, another my physical well-being, and on and on.  Here I am trying to keep all of those plates spinning and moving together…but then I’m asked to do a head stand or support another spinner on my shoulders and the chance of me keeping all of those plates from falling and breaking becomes slim.

Balance within any 24-hour period to me is elusive and maddening to achieve.  Yeah, it’s a great theory but I find when I spread myself into all of these areas every day, I stink at everything.  Instead, I strive for balance over a week or month.  If I decide to train for a half marathon, I will be spending more time running.  If I’m in the middle of a big project at work, my time will have to be focused there until the project is complete.  If we are going on vacation, then it’s important that I disconnect from work.  Get the picture?

There’s a reason plate spinning is fascinating to watch.  A plate could fall at any moment.  The performer who masters it is quite literally super-human.

My advice - pray and buy Corelle wear.

“LATWILL” Come Back!

GRAVITY Experiment Day #12

Today’s weight:  149.0 (it’s gotta be water weight because my hands and feet feel like they are going to explode)

Pounds lost / pounds to go:  1.5 / 13.5

Exercise:  NADA – I’ll switch up Sunday and today as my day of rest.  We’ve had one kid home sick and another to the doctor today with a tick bite.  I’ve literally been in bed from 12 – 6 today with something of my own – don’t know what the technical term for “ice-pick-in-the-temple” pain is but I’ve got it.  Cool thing is that I’m very sore from yesterday’s kick-butt workout and I’m feeling some body changes;-)

I accidentally removed a subscriber from my blog today – it’s not a good combo to have an iPhone with a touch screen and fat thumbs;-(  I saw the subscriber’s e-mail briefly and it was “latwill__@_____.___.”  That’s as good as I can do.  They didn’t have that second step where they ask “Are you sure you want to delete?”  As soon as it happened, I felt like that kid in A Christmas Story that stuck his tongue to the frozen flagpole.  As all the kids ran into school when the bell rang, Flick stood there yelling, “Come back!  Don’t leave me…come back!”

I’ll admit that this taught me a lesson though.  Technology can be dangerous.  I didn’t panic initially until the cyber-helper at WordPress told me there was no way to retrieve the subscriber other than to mention it in my blog.  I hate that I may have offended a complete stranger (or a close friend) because of my lack of dexterity.

But what about those people we ignore Friend-ing on Facebook (or de-Friend)?  Or people we “accidentally” send an e-mail or text message to containing hateful language?  What point are people really trying to make when they stop becoming a Fan of a particular cause or organization?

Technology gives us a dangerous form of anonymity and an unprecedented ability to be passive aggressive.  What ever happened to talking it out?  From now on when someone gives me or my company the cyber ax, I’ll just blame it on fat thumbs.

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